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RebekahS /
AnalysisOfCRSHow the dialouge is reinforced? How is the relationship silently kept going through the exchange of words? The way that my relationship with my dad works I conciously choose the way that the dialouge works The exchange typically goes into small talk at first, a little slow to start becuase we don't always have alot in common, but it eventually goes into a small discussion of something (perhaps insurance, familial problems, his companies, something stark and not too personal). The exchange evenually goes to a point where Dad has to impart some of his wisdom on me, which in turn pushes me to more of a student level and elevates him to an employer or educator level. We both realize that our relationship works in this way, although I believe that he would say that it is not so. We perpetuate this type of language because it is the best way in which we can communicate with each other. If I expected the same type of communication with my Dad that I get from many others, I would not tolerate the way in which he speaks to me. But because he is my father and I believe that a good relationship between a father and daughter is necessary, I work out a way of talking to him that works for us. |